The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a Fuck

5 Things You Could Stop Giving a Fuck About (at Work)

Before you say yes to that conference call, hear me out.

Mar 25 •

Do You Really HAVE To?

On real vs. perceived obligations, and a flowchart to help you make decisions for all the right reasons.

Mar 11 •

The Guilt is Coming from Inside the House

Why you feel bad for setting boundaries, how to address it, and my favorite thing to say to people who can’t take no for an answer.

Mar 4 •

A Fuck Not Given is Something Gained

Your 2024 mantra: comin' in hot!

Dec 21, 2023 •

All I Want for Christmas is Freedom from Crippling Debt

It's okay to say "Ho, ho, NO" this holiday season.

Nov 27, 2023 •

Make it a “Personal Policy”

A set-it-and-forget-it way to define and defend your boundaries.

Nov 6, 2023 •

Should You Give That Fuck?

A flowchart to help you balance your Fuck Budget.

Oct 30, 2023 •

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